Nude Latins: Open Discussions - Discusiones: Need MFM Advice

In my latin wifes previous marriage she had several MFM encounters. After her divorce she met me and told me about them and said I was all she needed. Well the thought of her in a mfm made be very turned on. We have been together for 13 years and the entire time we have always watched MFM XXX movies and fantasize about MFM almost everytime we have sex and she gets really turned on. Well 1 year she came home from work and totally shocked me when she said she wanted a MFM and we did it and we both were so turned on we fucked all night long afterwards. In fact we liked it so much we did it again two days later and everything was going great until I got a little jealous said I think its time to go home an we left. We were still so horney when we got home we fucked again all night. ZHowever she ssaid she didnt want to hurt me since I got jealous and said she didnt want to do it again. Well one year later we stil watch MFM movies and fantasize about the guy she was with and the possibility of another MFM. However she gets cold fet at the last minute. Is there something I can do to convince her to try it again and this time I wont get so jealous?

I would let it go. It seems as if the fantasy has worn off for her because you did get jealous and it changed the experience. I wouldn't try to force this on her again. Just sit back and wait to see if she ever brings it back up, if she does you will have your opportunity again. You don't want to make her uncomfortable because if you do your sex life could come to a crashing hault. Just my opinion.

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I would advise you to leave well enough alone. Don't push her to do something she does not want to do anymore you may regret the whole experience.

I think she is seriously thinking about it once again. It has been over 1 1/2 years since the previous experience. I will not push her I want her to ask for a MFM.

Dude go home and try to reinstall to her the security of your love and don't worry about MFM anymore. She now feels afraid of losing you and that means more to her than any fantasy realization. Enjoy the facr that you guys have done it and get yourselves off just reminising of those times. Try to move on to other fantasies like making love like lovers or something go out and play the you don't eachother and try to pick her up and take her back to your place fantasy.

You can try by having the guy over to your house for a change. This should show her that she can feel secure in her own home. You could also set up a SURPRISE for her by taking her blindfolded to the guys house and when you take the blindfold off, you two guys are nude and both start kissing her all over.

Hopefully you are still checking this thread. My wife is from Mexico and it took a very long time for us to get to this point. Contrary to your situation, I was the instigator and this sort of thing had never crossed her mind. We spent a great deal of time talking and reassuring and at the same time neither of us had had this experience and we were looking for someone to be the missing M. Now that I look back it is clear as crystal and I feel like an idiot, but at the time, I did not have the experience to know that she was not straight up with her excitement and same desire I had if not more because she was worried of what I might think. I was so excited about the opportunity, but I had no idea how to make it happen, for anyone who thinks it's a piece of cake, I assure you, you are wrong, so she was fine but I was beside myself thinking that if I did not find someone quick this opportunity would dissapear and never resurface, so I turned it around. A good friend was coming to visit from England who I trust and talk to on the phone but don't see much, he is married, but I figured if I got up the nerve to explain that he would understand. The day he got here, we went out for drinks, just the three of us, we came home and it was as if she knew, she went upstairs, and after a while I went up to ask her what she thinks, she said yes, I went and asked him and he was awesome, made her feel like gold, evertything was great, but I was so wound up mentally in trying to think of every detail that I ruined my own chances of enjoying and taking in the chance of a lifetime.
Afterwards, I asked him to give us some time alone and it was just like you said, I couldn't get enough of her, we went six times. After that we have tried several times to find someone else but something has been blocking us from being able to, a pattern developed of one of us saying yes then backing out as time drew closer. I have been wanting to do this again for quite some time but exactly the same as you I have not realized how to remove that barrier that somehow took on a life of it's own until I just read your message. This is my first time here and I thank you for sharing this and I think I know what we need to do. Both of our Latin wives are very sensitive to how they think that we think of them, but they will never tell us that. They have come to the conclusion that they did something wrong and don't understand that our desire to figure it all out, is how we think and that we want to somehow make it better the next time, meaning, we think that last time was not perfect and had problems, They see our long faces and don't understand why we are not tickled pink and feel bad that they had a great time and enjoyed every minute. What You and I need to do, Is to shut our months and not say a word, secretly plan as best we can meaning pack your favorite lingerie you know she likes in a bag and don't tell her, tell her you need to go and pay a bill or something and drive far away from home and familiar surroundings, to a cheap hotel, Tell her to wait a second you are going to ask for directions and get a room. Go back to the car and tell her that the manager was very nice asked you to please look at the rooms as there is a special promotion and you may as well look since you are there. Take her to the room and when she enters and says oh it's nice, say yeah, you like it? She will say yes, say this is our room, I love you, you are my best friend, my lover, my teacher, my everything and I did not know what else to do. I had such an amazing time when we shared our adventure and I feel like I ruined everything. Baby, look at me and make her look into your eyes, say I'm sorry, please don't say a word, I won't either, don't be mad at me but I brought all of your sexy clothes, make up everything in the car, I would like you to get in the shower and make yourself even more beautiful then you already are, put on my favorite sexy outfit and let's go to the local bar and see what happens. Good Luck I hope it works for both of us and do believe it will. And listen to me, shhhh don't say a word about this and me, you thought of it yourself.

Thanks desdriv. My wife still gets turned on talking about it but at the last second backs out. I think she will try it again but It is when she makes up her mind like she did before. I just wish I coule help her make it up. Thanks for the advice.

Wow My wife told me a true story about a threesome she had 16 years ago. She told me how a guy with a very thick cock bent her over and begin fucking her and spanking her ass while her previous husband watched. Man did she have me turned on.

Latinlova. I valued your point of view until your post turned racist. My wife says I have the biggest cock she has ever seen and we have sex at least three times a week for the last 14 years. It sounds like you are very insecure in your own package and maybe you fear your wife will leave you. This is an adult site for wife lovers the last time I checked. I think that you are not white and you are still penallly challenged thus explains your rage hatred of white people.