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I am an african american and love spanish women all types, but how come when it comes to trying to get a woman they act wierd. what is it about black men that scares some womeni am am an atrractive male and have to get my spanish women but want to know whats the deal

No hard feelings intended, but perhaps it's you, or your approach? Also we have to be careful not to speak for a whole ethnic group. Some people rather stay among their own ethnic group while others want to venture out. That's all ethnic groups and races.

i think it's more of the women you're meeting, dirkdiggiler. i've met MANY attractive women from other races who aren't scared of black men. i think those that ARE scared are harboring some "other racial issues" that you can't do anything about.

Have you ever checked out Nude Africa ... I don't see too many black Females looking for other ethnic individuals, whether they are Latinos, Whites, or whomever. You also find haters, when the limited inter-racial couples do get on and post. I totally agree with showmeluvmami. It is all about perference. I am quite disturb and frankly pissy when certain Blacks try to make it more of an issue than it really is. Such as the comment standingbear is trying to pass on. Does it only apply to everyone else but not to you. Before you address other ethnic group's so call issues with blacks, first check your own backyard and see what you are doing to promote better understanding and tolerance. In Nude Africa, many of time it is made clear that the individuals(for the most part blacks) looking will post, "BLACKS ONLY". In conclusion, just because someone chose not to go black, is it a racial issue, then what is the excuse when blacks do the same thing. Frankly I am tire of hearing this Bullshit. For everyone else enjoy and have fun.

The Purple Latin Devil ... Keeping It Real

Sometimes, not even that. To wit, I'll use my own family as an example (I'm puerto rican). I know of some women in my family that will not date blacks, I know of some that don't care, as long as they're boricua, and some that color regardless of ethnics. All kinds, within one family, let alone an ethnic group. But, by and large, the puerto rican women I've known in my life by and large tend to prefer other puerto ricans. Don't know about the nuyoricans, and other hispanics though.

The Bottom Line rmir72 is that it is the preferences and choices of individuals on whom they chose to exclude even a particular group to play with is totally within their right. No one is going to tell me that a female or male needs to fuck a particular race in order to prove they are not racist. It is just plain Bullshit and moronic. Analyze what standingbear is saying, really. Yet interestingly enough he does not mention those who are black that makes the same choices of excluding others simply on the merit of not being black. What about this important factor, or hidden feeling not based on racism but a horrific experience. For Example..what if the female was raped by a black, Latino, OR White which reasonably would make her afraid of the group these individuals came from or men altogether. What then, force this weak argument of his on females. Unbelievably and without merit, standingbear makes a blanket statement as if he is an authority on the subject, without knowing as to why. Not that he or anyone else for that matter deserves an answer. Certain blacks have a self serving interest and its all about me or us. Who made him a judge and gave him the right to put other ethnic groups on trial. Another train of thought, shouldn't Asians, Jews, Arabs, Whites, Latinos complain just the same when excluded from his precious world. Please..... who make some in the black community Gods among Men Or Women. I am just tired of it, NO INDIVIDUAL NEEDS TO JUSTIFY THEIR CHOICES who they fuck or not, Including excluding a particular ethnic group. It is no one business but their own. END OF STORY.

The Purple Latin Devil .... Keeping It Real

thanks for everyones input some of you make good points I dont agree with alot of them but there are good points. showmeluvmami i have no problem getting women of different races its just the area im in is different. I mean I have a white girl and a hispanic women even and arabic women but if you ask me its the area which isnt really diversed. and i am going to have to a agree with standing bear to a certain extent it has something to do with prejudice to a certain extent if your open to all people of different race i dont understand why wouldnt you date them. yes labeling does make a diff outofmind but even still labeling is no different then police stereotyping that every black person with a bmw or a nice car sells drugs.. I just think if your truly open to other people than you are

Dirk,,,I take it that you are Black. I quite understand if someone does not tolerate a person of another ethnic group, for no reason other then their background or the color of their skin, that in itself is one issue that is QUITE clear. HOWEVER, don't give me this bull, that unless someone is sexually attracted to a particular group they can be term as a racist. That is sheer nonsense. Let me capitalize this, because this is the hypocrisy that I see in the two of you. IT IS OBVIOUS TO ME, WHEN THOSE SAME PRACTICES THAT YOU CONDEMN IS ALIVE AND WELL IN THE BLACK COMMUNITIES, IT appears BY YOUR RESPONSES THAT YOU BOTH FEEL that it is your prerogative, you never direct attention to nor talk opening on this very same issue when in fact it is practice among blacks. HOWEVER IT IS QUITE DIFFERENT WITH OTHER GROUPS, IT IS EVIL IF SOMEONE OUTSIDE OF YOUR GROUP PRACTICE THE SAME THING. So, IS THAT WHAT WE ARE ALL TO BELIEVE? BEFORE YOU TRY TO DISCREDIT WHAT I AM WRITING, IF YOU NEED PROOF ON MY STATEMENTS ON BLACKS, JUST CHECK NUDE AFRICA IF YOU ever NEED EVIDENCE. If there is racism being practice openly there you will find it. There is a section for non-blacks? WTF, let's create a section for blacks outside of the rest of the populace in other sites. Would it fly? Of course not, there would be an outrage among the black communities THAT WILL RESOUND IN THE MINDS OF MEN. YET, THERE APPEARS NO REASON OR CONCERN AMONG BLACKS TO SAY ONE WORD NOR EVER address the ISSUE, when it is happening among them. Folks! this is stupidity. This is not the only site that someone made a claim against racism in the Black World because they were spurned from a female outside of their race. The planting of this poison is in every site outside of Nude Africa. Redirecting my thoughts, just read the responses from Dirk or Standing ... they keep quiet concerning the problems that is fast becoming prevalent and openly being practice in their own backyard, again for the same reason they attacking others. So tell me, why would you avoid explaining this terrible practice in the Black community, if it is such a terrible pattern that exist in others. Neither you nor standingbear address a well balance outlook concerning all group including ... ummm let see, Blacks. I will say you will not imprison anyone to your type of absurdities nor unjust claims.
If you have not notice yet, I am Hispanic and have unfortunately experience the sting of the low life partisan. However, I would be a lame Brain, lacking brain cells, complete idiot if I would to reason that if a White, Black or any other female of a different ethnic group does not want to have sex with me it is because of racism. These two individuals make claims that stultify their statements. IT GOES BEYOND THE REASONING OF MEN AND WOMEN. I thought that Batman did away with the Jokers of this world but obviously he failed.

Have Mercy on This Purple Latin Devil ... Keeping It All Real.

its obvious that your are hispanic and for that i applaud you for your little put downs its cute really it is. But its funny how you name one website amongsts thousands.. yes I am black and very proud thanks for pointing this out.. and NO I DO NOT SPEAK FOR MY RACE AS AN WHOLE let me type that again so the slow and stupid can see it NO I DO NOT SPEAK FOR MY RACE AS AN WHOLE... and believe me no one is quote on quote spurned from any female from any race. I just asked a question that someone obviously took way out of context. If you were to ask do i believe there is racism yes very much so, if someone was to say i dont find a certain race attractive yes i do believe that is prejudice its no way a person can say that with not having seen everyone of a particular race. Even blacks, now you question is nudeafrica right for having there on black website sure they are just like all the other races have thier own its okay. see outofmind only a idiot would think one man can speak for a whole race. just like i would be an idiot to think all hispanics think like you. Now when i initially asked the question i really didnt expect men to respond reason being how does a man speak for a women on how she feels.... he cant so i guess the real question is outofmind why would you even post up here>>>? now if you wanna talk black hispanics no problem i open for conversation.. just post a question and we can def rap about it? personally I like you outofmind you are a very opinionated guy and thats cool with me too many of minorities sit back and let shit happen.. even though you may not agree with me your all right until nxt time

I thought only woman got there panties in a bunch obviously not

Quite a sneak low sucker punch ..eh. Dirk. That how you proceed with those who won't see your way. Morons, without self conscious of existence. Nice statement,"NO I DO NOT SPEAK FOR MY RACE AS AN WHOLE let me type that again so the slow and stupid can see it NO I DO NOT SPEAK FOR MY RACE AS AN WHOLE. Wow, a man of extreme intelligence. Of course! what am I thinking, a snob and mighty one to point this out.Shit, I can get low and nasty just the same, just this time I will overlook it FOR THE SAKE OF having my say in a sane manner. You just proved my point, won't speak for your race as a whole yet conveniently you can sit and judge the other groups. How nice. It is so tiring to see the same bullshit over and over again from some Blacks and expects the rest of the populace not say a word as if we all have not experience to a certain degree rejection from other groups. GET OVER IT! BLACKS ARE NO BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE. I have the balls to address the hypocrisy and will do so. As far as idiot, read my statement closer, I mention many of time that "SOME BLACKS"..SOME, BEING THE KEY WORD, THINK IN THIS MANNER. Keep on top of your reading studies, it may help. YOUR PERSONAL ATTACKS ON ME WON'T DETER ME FROM TELLING ASSHOLES WHAT THEY NEED TO HEAR. LMFAO .... Need to do better than that.

The Purple Latin Devil ... Keeping It Real and Doesn't GIVE A FUCK ABOUT IMBECILES.

The bottom line is that SOME people in ALL racial and ethnic groups have some bias or ignorance about others. The more we get to know each other the less ignorance we have about each other. I am a black man married to a latina. We were at a Labor Day weekend party with friends. In the group there were black, white, and Latino families. Many racial and ethnic combinations married to each other at the party. No one thought twice about who one was with or why he or she was married to whoever. Many hispanics I know including my wife have told me that color was never an issue until they came to the US. I disagree with that in some ways but I do get the point. We have a lot of hang ups in this country. Even in our own black communities we are messed up over color and race. When was the last time you have seen a dark skinned video vixen working that thang on a hip hop video? See my point? LOL

@"outofmind",

please explain how my comments "riled" you so? i DO think that when you run across ANYONE who has a problem with an entire race that there IS a greater issue lurking in the background. i think you KNOW this, but are in TOTAL DENIAL>.

Fellows, Fellows, Lets calm down.
I'm a black latino, I love my latinas by far. I have been very fortunate to enjoy both sides of the fence, even a few whites ladies too. I have to say that its a matter of attitude, most blacks come on with an attitude towards other including their own in general ( please do not get angry bro. but its the truth) I have entered places to have the cold shoulders by latinas, but, as soon as I say ONE word in spanish, ALL doors open up to me immediately, so that tells me that it's a cultural/attitudinal problem more so than color, Yes I'm Black, but my attitude in general is pure latino and I treat my mamis accordingly.

Some black brothers and sisters confuse "black" for "Ghetto" so unfortunately all suffer Including myself because of that. Some of my hispanic brothers could use a slap or two also.

Once you find a latina love, you'll never go black again, they have attitude also, but its different, its all about papi, not color.

In the latin world we have a saying "mi negrito, mi negrita" all in love, meaning my little black one or love. Peace bro.

Interesting Tamparider. As I mentioned earlier to NL, i have friends of all different backgrounds. My latina wife and black self hang out with all groups. I've learned over the years that there are two races. Educated (nothing to do with your level of formal schooling) and Ignorant. I make it a point to sitck with the educated race and my life is always at peace. Educated people don't see color and they understand and respect different cultures. I can get down with any group with no hangups and enjoy their friendship. I will always make it a point to avoid opinions until I know the individual. Everyone listening should go out this week and meet a person from another ethnic group. It doesn't have to be about getting sex. Just learn about another race or ethnic group. You will be a better person. When I married a Puerto Rican I learned about ignorant hangups that I had. I learned a new respect for many things about latin culture. That wasn't my dream in life but it just happened. I became a better person. I picked up things from latin culture that I needed to spread in the black community. Respect and unity among the extended family for one. There is more.

Yall niggas and greengos need a damn drink after that shit!!! lol....but well done.

I want to know how come hardly any Latins are into the hoy wife scene. It's almost ALL white folks. The swinging scene is full of latins and blacks.

I'm a black man married that has been married to a beautiful Latina for years. From my personal experience only and dealing with her side of the family. A majority of them stay within their culture for obvious reasons....It's usually one of the two answers in brief. Either: (1)Culture loyalty or (2)Just uninterested for whatever reason. Some are open to interracial and some aren't like any other race of women.

My friend the burden is on you(not them)to find the ones that are interested in black men. Try frequenting Latin venues that are known for stocking many Latinas (wink). Places were the numbers are always on our side, you'll snag a straggler or two. Of course most will stick to their men, but it only takes that one....

It's all in the numbers and dedication to the cause my friend. What I used to do when I was looking was to do a 30 day wonder. It'll take a small chunk of cash to do it properly . Anyway, Go out every day for 30 days nonstop socializing with the women. You collect many numbers and slowly start to filter through the women, only keeping the ones you've fucked in less the 7days. Creating your team of ALL-STARS. One for every day of the week. Use that method in a Latin club. I GUARANTEE YOU WILL COME UP. Numbers are on your side.....Then you can sit back and relax and see which of the 5 you'd like to pursue beyond just fuckin. That's a bullet proof method for all women ...

@"outofmind"
you OBVIOUSLY didn't have the ability to "understand" what my statements meant.

when i said" ...those(from another race) that ARE scared are harboring "other" racial issues you can't do anything about", isn't trying to "pass on anything" , as you so ignorantly stated. i'm talking about individuals of ANY RACE that possess feelings that causes them to want to avoid interacting with another different race. can you understand this now, or do i need to type larger??

the next topic you're "WAY OFF" about concerns nude africa. yes, i've seen black posters that say "black only", but guess what? i see the VERY SAME on caucasian sites, craigslist, etc, asking for "whites only". you try to make it seem as if black folks are doing something negatively unique when it's NOT.
if you look , there are MANY white women that make the effort to go on nude africa and ASK to meet black men for sex. the same is true on predominately white sex sites as well. i have no problem if they come on black sites, but black men aren't ASKING them "come on and request us", they do it all on their own. don't be upset because it's not the same the other way around.

you're one of those folks who wants to gripe, but your gripes are based on your own racial ignorance.

yea that guy outoofmind is out his fucking mind